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How
to Leverage the Law of Attraction
and Create the Life You Really Want
What steps can you
take to consciously use the Law of Attraction in your life? There
are many books on the topic and even a couple of hit movies. To save you
time and money Ive gathered my resources and put together the steps
you can use immediately to consciously leverage the Law of Attraction
in your own life.
These steps
are easy and youve probably heard them before, but dont let
their simplicity fool you they pack a powerful punch. The purpose
behind all of these steps is that by taking them you put yourself in the
right energy to attract what you want. If you dont take
these steps you will still attract things to you, however you may not
attract what you really want to attract.
Remember,
Like Attracts Like. You attract what you focus on. These steps will help
you focus on what you do want, rather than what you dont want. By
using these steps you will be able to consciously create the life you
want.
1. If
you havent already, Take 100% Responsibility for Your Life and What
You Create in It
Only when
you take full responsibility for your life can you create what you want.
Only then will you be able to fully choose your life experiences. Only
then will you stop being and seeing yourself as a victim of your circumstances.
Your life
will change for the better as soon as you take 100% responsibility for
your life and what you create in it. Youll feel more in control.
Your life will feel richer. Not only that, taking responsibility for
your life sends a big message to the Universe that says Here I
am! Im ready to live and this is what I want!
2. Gain
clarity about what you really want and then ASK for it.
To get
what you want you have to be clear about what you want and then you
have to ASK for it. Ask who? The Universe.
If this
sounds a little hokey, remember, we are creators at our core. We are
always creating, whether we are aware of it or not. We create through
the thoughts that we think and the feelings that we feel. Therefore,
if we are always creating, why not create what we want consciously?
The Universal
Law of Attraction tells us Like Attracts Like. You attract what you
think about and feel the most. The Universe brings to you what you focus
on.
To create
the life you want you must consciously focus your attention on what
you want and then hold your attention on it.
3. BELIEVE
you will get what you want. You dont need to know HOW youre
going to get what you want;
you just have to believe you will get it.
Dont
let yourself get stuck in the HOW. Worrying about HOW youre going
to accomplish something will bury your best intentions under worry,
over-planning and fear.
Joe Vitale
says in his book, The Attractor Factor, stay open to what your guts
telling you and then take action on what its telling you. This
kind of action is called inspired action.
Inspired
action comes from your gut. Its your intuition talking to you.
If you dont take action when the inspiration strikes the emotion
will soon pass, unless you apply your passion to some sort of activity.
Inspired
action feels good. Inspired action comes from the core of who you are.
It is not something you should do, but rather it is something
you can do to get you closer to your goals.
Action
will fuel you and your dream. You can figure out the steps as you move
forward. In other words, you dont have to have all the steps figured
out in order to take action. You just have to start. The rest will fall
into place.
4. Dont
let your fears and doubts sideline you.
Have you
had this experience: you set a goal for yourself, begin taking action
to achieve it and then suddenly get stuck in fear, worry and doubt?
What do you do when that happens?
Unfortunately
for a lot of us we do one thing we quit. We let our fear get
the best of us and we bail. And when we bail we beat ourselves up, feel
terrible and stay exactly where we dont want to be.
Whats
the solution? Its common to be faced with worry, fear and doubts
on the way to your dream. It happens to everyone! One of the best ways
to stay on track is to surround yourself with a support system, such
as a mastermind group, coach, and/or supportive friends and family.
By doing
so you create an environment that supports you and your dream. Even
if the going gets tough, your support system will encourage you to keep
going.
5. Be
open to RECEIVING what you want.
Receiving
what you want isnt so much an act of DOING as it is an act of
BEING.
Has this
ever happened to you; you want something like a brand new car.
Every time you think of having a brand new car two things happen; part
of you feels good and part of you feels like getting a brand new car
is impossible. Which feeling do you think wins out? The one you feel
the most and with the most intensity.
Receiving
what you want is more than just getting the physical
thing that you want; its also putting yourself in receiving
energy. How do you do that? You feel how good it is going to feel
to get that new car that you want (or job, or lover, or
) and you
hold on to that feel good feeling. You imagine how good its going
to feel to get what you want AS IF youve already received it.
There are
two ways you can do this:
1) Write
out an affirmation that states I am so happy and grateful now
that Im driving my brand new 2007 Lexus
. As you write
it out FEEL how good it will feel to drive your brand new Lexus.
2) Use
your imagination and put yourself in the feeling place of already having
what you want. Close your eyes, take a deep breath and imagine yourself
behind the wheel of your brand new car. Go for a test drive right in
your own living room! Enjoy it.
Putting
yourself in the feel good place of having received what you want puts
you in the right energy to attract what you want. Why? Like
Attracts Like. When you feel as though you have it, and you love every
minute of having it, youre putting lots of I love having
this energy out into the Universe. The Universe can only do one
thing send it your way.
6. Create
daily rituals.
Do the
previous steps feel like a lot to swallow? I know at first they can
be but over time leveraging the Law of Attraction in your life will
become second nature. You can speed up that process by creating rituals.
Rituals,
or meaningful and consistent routines, are actions you take for the
sake of keeping you on track and focused on the big picture you have
for your life.
What are
some rituals that would be fun and keep you on track? Heres a
list of mine:
**I created
a vision board of what I want to BE, what I want to DO and what I want
to HAVE this year. Everyday I look at the board I created and imagine
the board represents my reality right now. I put myself in the feeling
place of BEING who I want to be, DOING what I want to do, and HAVING
what I want to have, AS IF it is all happening right now.
**Each
morning I start the day by focusing on what I am grateful for in my
life. Being grateful for what is NOW opens you up for more good things
to come your way. Its as if youre sending the Universe a
message that says you appreciate all that youve been given and
all that you are about to receive.
**Each
night before I go to sleep I say a prayer and send a big THANK YOU to
the Universe for the gifts it brought that day.
Taking these
steps will help you become a conscious creator of your life. As you take
these steps, dont worry about whether or not youre doing these
steps perfectly. Just do them. As you do more and learn more,
leveraging the Law of Attraction in your life will become easier and easier.
Have FUN with this process. ENJOY your life. Be GRATEFUL for the moment.
FOCUS your attention on the now and act as if everything you want is already
on its way to you. It is! BELIEVE it!
Next week
Ill finish up this series of articles with a resource list of where
you can learn more about the Law of Attraction.
©2007
Cari Vollmer / LifeOnTrack(tm) / LifeOnTrack.com
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